Archive for the ‘Child Behavior’ Category
How do you end up with a child’s misbehavior? Sometimes it is not easy to get a bit authoritarian, no need to spend, and know how to handle the anger of the moment. But without a doubt, this is the best way for the child to stop misbehaving, especially if it is very small.
Learning to be assertive
First of all, we learn that the best way to fight against the bad behavior of our little boy is not a battle, and if we face it that way, probably end up fighting all day without really getting anything.
The best thing to do is create a list of those bad behaviors that seem most serious – should be few, either because they are dangerous, some civic or just too weird and embarrassing. To these must establish clear rules and logical consequences. For less serious behaviors, we can develop a common policy or deal with each individual case depending on context. Read the rest of this entry »
Sometimes the little kids deplete us patience, put us in a bad mood and we stressed. And finally, becomes the inevitable: cry them, and occasionally, unnecessarily.
In general, we yell at our children because we don’t feel listened to by them, for this reason, it is important to know to leave shout to your kids, especially if we know that the more we shout, the less we hear.
Undoubtedly, it is difficult to organize the children for school, the club, to grandmother’s house. You may lose the small nerves when they are not ready, but yelling will not help you at all. The best thing to do is to plan things in advance, and be ready you before them. Read the rest of this entry »
The fear is common in childhood. It is an intense dislike toward a person, place, activity object causing emotional stress and often the easiest way to behave, is avoidance.
Many childhood fears are between the rational and the irrational, and occur in the phases in which the child is exposed to new experiences and to develop cognitive thinking and imagination ability. If the fear of a child is considered normal, depends of age and it interferes with your daily activities.
Fear by age of child
Depending on the age of the child, the fears are different, and fear different things. Small babies are afraid of falling and loud noises as well as fear of strangers, which happens between seven to nine months and can last up to 18 months, when it begins to decline, show signs of crying, stiffness, and agitation. Read the rest of this entry »
We think one of the biggest challenges we have as parents is to set limits. And sometimes it can be an exhausting task, which takes you almost all the hours you stay awake. According to psychologist Audrey Ricker, use the “no” too often can make your small underestimate the value of this little word.
So today we offer some tips for setting limits to the children through phrases to replace the word “no”, but also teach kids why they should not do certain things.
Positive ways to put limits
There is hardly a person on the planet who does not like ice cream. Imagine your little one. But you must always yield to their demands, although the floor and pull you over in a private function best tantrum of his life. Acts with patience tries to calm him, telling him that it is not healthy to eat ice cream all the time, and instead can offer a yogurt or fruit. Read the rest of this entry »
Many mothers wonder when to start the stimulation of their children, and is often known that stimulation starts from the first year of baby’s life and it is at this stage that the child goes through major changes.
For example, in their first days of life pay attention to the faces of people who look, and especially will be attracted to the voices of their parents. It is very important to talk to your son, as well, in addition to strengthening the emotional bonds, will be encouraging their sensitivity to both visual and auditory.
Scientists believe that language is acquired more easily during the first years of life, since his early years laying down the main connections in the brain. Proper stimulation during their early years will help your child develop their full potential. Read the rest of this entry »
Although personality is built with the passage of time, all babies have a certain traits already marked from the moment of birth, that make them more sleepy, less weeping or laughing. The baby’s personality has nine inherited traits, that combined can give rise to three types of personality: the easy to treat, child who gets angry but slowly, and the combative. That can not be changed, but can enhance or diminish. Some features will be from birth, others can be seen at three months of age, and to evolve.
How to know the personality of the baby
First of all we should look how active is our baby. The less active babies usually do not accept physical games, but to be left at will, while very active babies have a high tolerance to stimulation, so you can get to get some gross motor projects as walking faster.
Another point to consider is that the regularity: there are babies that keep natural time to eat, sleep or even relieve themselves. It is important to be respected, as this can provide security. However, if we should not get too unpredictable strict routines is important-just of bedtime. Read the rest of this entry »
If you have small children, you probably suffer in the morning to be on time to school and to work. Among the child does not want to get up, especially because we did not want to sleep last night, does not want to take a shower, is a constant struggle to eat breakfast you need to go to school to learn.
Undoubtedly, it is important to establish a morning routine for your child, so that parents are not stressed during this time and you can start the day in calm, relaxed and happy.
Establishing a morning routine:
The important thing is to establish simple and consistent routines for the week and for the weekend. First of all we think about what we have to do in the morning, and what we leave for the night. Logically, breakfast and dress is something we have to do or yes in the morning, however, children can shower at night if they wish. Read the rest of this entry »
Do you want to know some ways to make your baby laugh? Then, there is nothing better to follow the advice of another mother. Laughter is a food for the soul, leads endorphins, away the bad mood, and means an expenditure of calories. It is one of the most beautiful acts in the world to make laugh a different, more if that is your son. Are you ready?
How to make your baby laugh:
A good way to make your baby laugh, and get fit at the same time-is to make graceful trunks for him. He will try to imitate, and end the two dying of laughter. Faces and movements make our language is also an excellent and classic choice, and so are the gentle tickle.
Physical contact is very important in a baby for their development. Therefore, a good way to make your baby laugh is by Eskimo kisses-those that occur nose to nose. Also the little touches in his tummy, face or legs with a stuffed animal or with our hands will make them laugh. Read the rest of this entry »
The look of an angry child can get hurt so much as thrown knives accurate heart sensitive to our mothers. Even business can become masters of indifference, we go crazy, we can not stand. Our children are angry, and it’s a hard learning, which is implemented throughout life to manage our children’s anger against the vicissitudes of life.
Helping children to handle anger:
What matters is that the issue does not happen because our children do not feel angry, but can transform anger into a more positive feeling. This will give them the opportunity to address and resolve the issues that bother them in a more constructive.
To deal with the anger of your children, please note:
Take a deep breath:
As you remember that our little ones are under development, and can not control the emotions in the same way that we do, take a deep breath. Children feel the losses and frustrations something like the end of the world, and so externalized. Allow mourn; it’s amazing the healing power of tears. Read the rest of this entry »
The reflexes of the newborn in the first days and even in the first months of life are the cornerstones of the future development of the baby, which will soon become resolute action.
By touching the roof of the mouth of your baby with pacifier or bottle nipple, instinctively begin to suck, is the sucking reflex. About two or three months old, your baby’s sucking will cease to be a reflection and become conscious effort.
If caress the cheek of your newborn baby, immediately going to open your mouth and turn your head to the side stimulated, in order to find the nipple or bottle, this is the rooting reflex. After four months, this reflex usually disappears, but can last up to a year, especially when the baby is sleeping. Read the rest of this entry »