Posts Tagged ‘child behavior’
How do you end up with a child’s misbehavior? Sometimes it is not easy to get a bit authoritarian, no need to spend, and know how to handle the anger of the moment. But without a doubt, this is the best way for the child to stop misbehaving, especially if it is very small.
Learning to be assertive
First of all, we learn that the best way to fight against the bad behavior of our little boy is not a battle, and if we face it that way, probably end up fighting all day without really getting anything.
The best thing to do is create a list of those bad behaviors that seem most serious – should be few, either because they are dangerous, some civic or just too weird and embarrassing. To these must establish clear rules and logical consequences. For less serious behaviors, we can develop a common policy or deal with each individual case depending on context. Read the rest of this entry »
Sometimes the little kids deplete us patience, put us in a bad mood and we stressed. And finally, becomes the inevitable: cry them, and occasionally, unnecessarily.
In general, we yell at our children because we don’t feel listened to by them, for this reason, it is important to know to leave shout to your kids, especially if we know that the more we shout, the less we hear.
Undoubtedly, it is difficult to organize the children for school, the club, to grandmother’s house. You may lose the small nerves when they are not ready, but yelling will not help you at all. The best thing to do is to plan things in advance, and be ready you before them. Read the rest of this entry »
If your child is that talks to you and asks questions at the very moment in which we are talking on the phone, or when you are having a conversation with another person, then you may be taking the habit of interrupting. It is a habit that can change if we take measures in this regard.
Usually when our son starts talking about strong or when needed most of the time of our attention, is because we have shown you voluntarily or involuntarily we are always available to them and what they want is the priority, generating what our son has the usual interrupt us.
What to do if your child stops
While it is true that they are the most important thing for us, we need to teach them that there is time for everything and that not always our time should and can be for them, because we also need a time for us. Read the rest of this entry »
We think one of the biggest challenges we have as parents is to set limits. And sometimes it can be an exhausting task, which takes you almost all the hours you stay awake. According to psychologist Audrey Ricker, use the “no” too often can make your small underestimate the value of this little word.
So today we offer some tips for setting limits to the children through phrases to replace the word “no”, but also teach kids why they should not do certain things.
Positive ways to put limits
There is hardly a person on the planet who does not like ice cream. Imagine your little one. But you must always yield to their demands, although the floor and pull you over in a private function best tantrum of his life. Acts with patience tries to calm him, telling him that it is not healthy to eat ice cream all the time, and instead can offer a yogurt or fruit. Read the rest of this entry »
The look of an angry child can get hurt so much as thrown knives accurate heart sensitive to our mothers. Even business can become masters of indifference, we go crazy, we can not stand. Our children are angry, and it’s a hard learning, which is implemented throughout life to manage our children’s anger against the vicissitudes of life.
Helping children to handle anger:
What matters is that the issue does not happen because our children do not feel angry, but can transform anger into a more positive feeling. This will give them the opportunity to address and resolve the issues that bother them in a more constructive.
To deal with the anger of your children, please note:
Take a deep breath:
As you remember that our little ones are under development, and can not control the emotions in the same way that we do, take a deep breath. Children feel the losses and frustrations something like the end of the world, and so externalized. Allow mourn; it’s amazing the healing power of tears. Read the rest of this entry »
The discipline is one of the most frequent topics of conversation among parents who want to enhance their role in the lives of their children in an active way. The problem that often arises is when we teach the discipline but inadequately. This leaves us frustrated; the child learns a valuable lesson and no productivity improvement. Today we talk about common mistakes to discipline our children.
Errors of parents to impart discipline:
Upload the voice, insult, panicking or any reaction like that is unacceptable when it comes to providing easy to our children; simply because it is not a way to effective nor environmentally friendly. With these actions, we are teaching the child cries or violence in general are acceptable when dealing with difficulties with siblings, parents, friends, relatives, etc..
If you feel you can not control your temper, you better take a few moments to react in a better way. Children respond better to peaceful approaches, accurate and reasonable. Read the rest of this entry »
Have questions about whether your son is hiding something? To be honest, let’s first admit that everybody lies, that is a fact. What is interesting is that when people lie signs that reveal the lie, can be a gesture on his face, a break in his voice or a change in posture. So today we teach you how to spot a lie in children if you do not doubt that your child is telling you the truth.
Different types of lies:
There are different types of lies whose consequences also vary. They are white lies or “pious”, those who call themselves no intention of hurting anyone. They are lies “fables”, those that are a total fabrication, without them there is not a shred of truth. They are the lies of omission, those that arise from not at all to say the truth, omitting some detail. Lies are accidental, such that we believe to be true, even when it is not. And are the lies of exaggeration, that is, we start with a truth, but add details that are not true.
Whatever the type of lie, do not generally lead to fruition, and in some cases, the consequences can be dire. Read the rest of this entry »
When children are subjected to new experiences and changes in their lives often change or alter their behavior. It happens, for example, with the arrival of a new sibling or the beginning of the garden that children have some sort of setback, which again act like babies, wet themselves, and they want diapers and pacifiers.
Faced with new situations that perhaps we are everyday adults, the child may show undesirable attitudes and rejection. Other examples can be a moving, changing schools or moving from one grade to another, the death of a relative, fights or arguments in their environment.
These lifestyle changes in children are very common, so do not worry too much. In these cases, it is best to support the child and help him understand what is going on around them. Read the rest of this entry »
The baby or child shy, scared him a lot of situations and new people, before deciding to participate in a group activity remain on the sidelines for a while watching and waiting. If you like it then they have access.
This type of babies if they are forced to try something new, resist and when presented with an unknown person, literally stick to the skirts of the mother. For those parents who want to foster independence and sociability in their children, this behavior can be very frustrating. But if we force or ridicule, all we get is that our little child feel even more insecure. Read the rest of this entry »
Since childhood is important for our son to feel useful and what better to do some housework participate, to learn through play to be ordained, and disciplined, as well as neat.
Save your clothes, your toys and keep them organized at an early age, must be a responsibility of the child and their things. Here we leave some tips to implement when teaching some order.
Of all the toys that are scattered about the room to one of them we can place a nice surprise, teaching him to put one at the basket, and if you take the one, then we will surprise, and play at that time with the child to put toys away is a pleasant time, and learn through play. Read the rest of this entry »