The initial insecurity of parents and the difficulties of settlement baby gradually give way to more relaxed relations. The better the parents understand their child’s reactions, the easier it will be comforting.
A hard rock waiting even a small percentage of parents is called colic of the three months, which is so called because after this time go away by itself. Although doctors have not yet agreed on the true cause of this phenomenon seems to be an immature digestive system.
After eating, the child cries with dismay, especially in the afternoon. Hold in his arms to rock him or walk with him, consoles him only a moment but not for too long. Even so it will better in the arms of mother, who put his hand on the sore tummy, do a gentle massage or put face down on his knees.
Of course also the baby more than three months can mourn for hungry, uncomfortable, out of loneliness or over stimulation, although this happens less frequently now because their parents can interpret their calls, they know better and can avoid these situations. But now are other types of crying, like crying tears of anger or demand, both very easy to recognize the situation in which they occur.
Whatever it causes by our baby that cries; the comfort has always arrived as soon as possible. The small must feel that this world is a hostile, but a place where they provide shelter and understanding. It is a misconception that if we show we are spoiling him too solicitous. It is exactly the opposite: the baby is an immediate response to their demands will not cry more. It will not be capricious; will become a happy child who knows he can rely on their parents, because they are always there.
Another mistake is to distinguish between physical needs and emotional needs. The baby is a social being from the beginning and is entitled to cry out of boredom, loneliness, need for companionship or desire to play. You have to meet these demands with the same request that you prepare a bottle or a wound heals.